Your life is not a doormat for people to walk on back and forth whenever it pleases them. A time will come where you'll have to be done with them playing games on you. Just slam the door at their face and tell them BYE.
If you don't take healthy precautions now, it will always be this way and even get worse; they'll take it as far as they possibly can until you're completely drained. Don't let that happen to you!
I don't care what you allowed in the past, the past is gone and now is the present, You set yourself some good boundaries.
Cutting them off will hurt you but it won't kill you, what will kill you is them, staying in your life!
In my case,
This is the part of my life where I silently remove myself from anyone who hurts me more than they love me, drains me more than they replenish me, brings me more stress than they do peace, and tries to stunt my growth rather than clap for it. I think that I've done more than enough talking and trying to make things work with certain people... I'm done.
Again, it Hurts, it hurts a lot, but what will kill you is them, staying in your life.
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